Love has no reason but to LOVE...

It's been 32 years...I've changed, I've experienced life, I've learn, I've lived and I survive. But I am always the same "ME". Just because you've never seen the other side of me doesn't mean it doesn't exist and does't mean that you have to be scare. And because I changed doesn't mean I am not the same person whom you knew before. I am, and always, changing like a water; flow or still or frozen as ice. (I am Aquarius, of course.) You surely have the right to walk away if you don't like what you see but it would be nice if you insist to stay and say "Who cares! That's the person I love and always will be, no matter what.!" Yes, that would have been nice indeed...

"Love has no reason and it has no rule but to love." I won't love you less if you don't dress the way I like. I won't love you less even when you act stupid. I won't love you less if you forget our anniversary. I won't love you less if you prefer to spent time with your friends sometime. I won't love you less if you forget to take care of me. I won't love you less even when your work comes first. I won't love you less just because we don't enjoy the same activities. I won't love you less just because you forget my birthday. I won't love you less no matter what...

If you have a reason to love someone, then it isn't love. Then it's always the reason to walk away.

Once Marilyn Monroe used to say; "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."....So, do you think you can handle me?...If you can't, that's the door and you're free to leave. If you can, welcome to my world and I will show you what's in the planet "ME"...

Yosita Anita V.

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