Friend with your ex?

Friend with your ex?

A couple days ago I accidentally watched Thai MV, story is about a couple which already broke up but then one day a guy sent his ex a request to be friend on Facebook. What would you do?

Is it ok to be friend with your ex? I've heard that a few time recently. Someone said "No, because some part of you will always love them." and some said no just because it doesn't sound right and not a good idea.

True for the first reason, some part of you will always love them. But in my opinion, isn't it good to have a friend who knows you better than anyone else? Who knows what you like and what you don't like. Who knows when you're in a good mood or in a bad mood. Who knows you inside out. Who else could be such a perfect good friend if it isn't your ex? Of course sometime they could possibly piss us off a big time but that why we loved them, didn't we?

Before, I didn't think it would be such a good idea as well but then when I reconsider...it seems they're just only "someone" whom happens to be the one I can talk to and share everything with.

If you look over what they've done to you or if they've ever hurt you, they could be your potential best friend! The feeling will always be there, the love and care. Nothing you can change or do about it. I don't expect anyone to understand but I'm feeling like I'm blessed to have those who loves me and care for me. So I don't mind at all to have more good friends who really understand me rather than some friends who pretend to care.

But note to their new partner, don't be jealous or afraid that I will be your trouble. If they chose you then you must have something. And most of all, I don't have a policy of stealing anyone's man.

So, being friend with you ex? Your choice...

Live & Love

Yosita Anita V.


Yosita Anita V.

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