Positivity is the key...

 


What I learn from my lecture today is what most of us probably know from somewhere else. "Self-fulfilling Prophecies", which I understood as positive vibe will attract positive vibe and negative vibe will only attract negative vibe. Sounds familiar?

I've learn it long time ago that negativity would not serve me well so did being around negative people would just only drain my energy. Have you ever felt so drain every time when you're with some certain people? It's like every time when you tried to cheer them up and when you spent time longer time with them, nothing would help and they still kept going with all the complaining, drama, and so on. I was there in that position, I kept receiving all the bad vibe and it's absolutely completely mentally drained me. No matter how much I tried to help them, no matter how many time I changed the subject, they would come back to their own problem and focusing on the bad part. So, it's not just only that my emotion was abused and suffered, I could feel that happiness seemed to abandon me as well. I knew I couldn't keep going on like that or else I would not have anything left for myself at all. At the end, I removed that people out of my life to save my sanity. Some of you may think that I was being selfish and abandoned my friends. No, those who only focus on themself and careless about the other is not friends and saving/respecting your sanity is not selfish. 

Also one thing I've been trying to do is that, every morning when I woke up I would just smile and told myself that today is going to be a good day. That is the setup to start off each day and it's really helping. No matter how hard the day was, it always ended up pretty well. So I decide to keep the momentum going and I can see my mood really shift in a good way. I love myself now, I love everyday I'm spending and I'm feeling grateful. 

If you think that it's just an illusion, it's just a hoax and it's impossible, well, keep thinking like that would not change anything and keep having that attitude will never get you anywhere. Refer to the lecture today, "Self-fulfilling Prophecies", the way you think and the actions you do will actually control your emotional states. Because you keep telling yourself that it's gonna happen like this, it's gonna be bad, I'm not gonna make it, I'm not good enough and yes, that's your self-fulfilling prophecies. You are what you think. But this is not for you to think that "I'm a millionaire.", well, we are trying to train your mindset here not your pocket. So, one small step at the time shall we?

Just at least try it out, smile to yourself in the morning when you wake up and tell yourself that it's gonna be a good day. Give yourself a positive vibe and if possible, stay away from negativity. 

#HappyVibeHappyLife

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