"Anita" for Dummies #6

Once my friend used to post on Facebook that she's just being friendly doesn't have any intention of flirting. I remember there's more than once that i mistakenly put myself into the situation when there's a fine line between 'friendly' and 'flirting'
How to identify 'friendly' from 'flirting'? Guys, if I don't stay close to you more than I should, if I don't accidentally or intentionally touch you more often, if I don't pay attention at all of what you are saying, if I don't smile or laugh or giggling more than I should then that's so obvious. We are just being nice and friendly. But then again, you just never know. Girls seems to be good at pretending and acting. In the case that she really shows she's interested in you then you don't have to guess.
Sometime I might did mistake by being too polite and leading them to the wrong direction instead of just being straight forward and honestly tell them that I wasn't interest. But you know what, I just couldn't help it. I am a flirter by nature and flirting is fun but you do need to know the limit because when you cross the line, you have to deal with the consequences. When I was younger, I didn't realize and put myself into an awkward situation so often but eventually I get smarter and be more aware of my flirting skill.
It's not just only girls who flirt but guys also. I haven't seen or met much of a good flirter, mostly they just play around (more player than flirter) or, I will say, fool around. I guess guys just doesn't prefer much of a foreplay but really want to get straight to the point.
Any how, I don't see any harm of flirting but like I said earlier that you need to know your limit. That's also what I concern, some people doesn't aware of its limit until they get themselves into trouble. And then they complain and whine about their stalkers, crazy guys, weirdo, psycho bitch, etc. If you, or the other person, already have a family or someone you really love and a relationship which you don't want to loose, be careful to cross the line. "If you like to play with fire, prepare to get burn."...and I won't say "I told you so."
Live & Love
Yosita Anita V.
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