Down the memory lanes

A few years back, around February time. I was dumped by a man I loved. I was left clueless for 3 whole months. I lost a trail of him, lost in contact. I had a serious heart-broken for the first time in my life.

I was hurt, badly. In the morning, I would wake up and cried, sometime I would constantly cry for a day and at night when I went to bed I would cry until I could sleep. It was totally a mess and I thought I was gonna go crazy. It's such a painful feeling. I had such a horrible and difficult time until I ,fortunately, could get myself altogether and made it through before I ,eventually, succeeded finishing myself.

Don't know why I thought of it recently, probably because it was around this time of the year (February-March). So it's kind of provoking an old wound some how.

"Don't allow your wounds to transform you into someone you are not." said my favorite author, Paulo Coelho. I'm not sure if I've ever transformed yet but surely I've been trying to stay away from those pain, once is enough...yeah, keep reminding myself "Once is enough."

Live & Love,

Yosita Anita V.

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