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"Anita" for Dummies #4

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#4 Eye candy Just want to give myself some little treats before Halloween so let's talk about something pleasant, "Eye candy". It's normal for girls to have a crush on those celeb, actors, singers, etc. the same way as you guys adore Megan Fox and Victoria's Secret Angels. Or when girls look at some eye candies in a mall or bars, that won't mean anything, might tickling your ego a slightly bit if you can handle that. For single girls, "That's yummy!". For non-single, "Damn, if I'm still single!" You shouldn't be worry us screaming, acting non-sense when we see our crush's picture or get excited when we watch their movies. There's nothing to be serious about unless we are too obsessive and willing to do anything to sleep with that person then you should be worry. But, honestly, let's meet when I am single *wink* If girls who already taken and still love to take some sweet, then those eye candy will be promoted to ...

"Out of sight, out of mind"

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"Out of sight, out of mind" that sentence can apply to 2 matters. First I've never had you in my mind anyway as you are just a better option at the moment. Second, I fall out of love. Today topic, "Long distant relationship" would it ever work? I used to deal with a couple relationships which involved long distant communication and required a lots of trust. In the end, it's failed. I admit it's pretty drained all my energy just to maintain a healthy relationship when the other person was like a thousand mile away from you. Time zone, phone line, misunderstanding, trust, etc. was caused me so much of a headache. Did love alone help? I don't think so. Even only 'love' couldn't save my relationship. But why it's so hard to keep long distant relationship work? As my sample; time zone, because of the timing that you have to wait to talk to the other end. When you get up, they go to bed or when you go to bed and they just get up. The timin...

"Be naked"....

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One of my friend just had an idea for me to write about, "The Beauty Contest" without all the make-up and cosmetic on their face. Since I used to be one of the contestant so she assumed I should be the expert in the beauty pageant world. First of all, it's pretty a scary thought for some girls to leave their house without the make-up on for example, my mom (sorry mom). She would never ever leave her house with bare face. I've also seen some pictures of Hollywood actress with their bare face, it's really unbearable! I have to give 2 thumbs up for their make-up artist for that incredible work. I like to be naked sometime (I mean my face) but then I realize there's really double standard in this society. I've been treating differently when I'm with and without make-up. I'm not surprised how shallow we are became to judge people by their appearance since there's so many advertisements showing us that appearance is everything. But beauty pageant no...

"Anita" for Dummies #3

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#3 No or Yes? I don't know why, we, women has to make it hard for men to understand what we want. "He should know how I feel!", "He should know that I don't like it!", "I told him before so he should remember it!", "He should know....!", sadly dear but he doesn't exactly know until you tell him, verbal not gesture. You, guys, probably have heard it before, like so many times already, that when women say "No, I'm ok." she really means "Hell no...I am NOT ok!". But is it always like that? You have to learn and notice after she says "I'm ok.", what's her reaction. If she's silent? If she's avoiding eyes contact? If she's suddenly moody? That's just some sample signs to worn you that she's so furious inside and ignorance isn't an option. You'd better find out quick before she makes you suffer, again. Every women is the same? It depends...I prefer to tell my partner stra...

"Anita" for Dummies #2

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#2 Mood swing 'Mood swing' can happen anytime not just only when women reach to her 'menopause' but in a softer version. Just to your knowledge and to prepare that it will be 10 times worst and rapidly when she's in the menopause but don't be panic, it still a long way to go. So, apparently, most of the decision Anita's made; for small subjects such as what & where to eat or movie and things to do, etc., is according to her mood at that moment. If you already have a plan for her, notice her reaction. *that will be for the next episode, "Anita" for Dummies #3* Of course she will follow your plan because she loves you, she wants to please you and to make you happy even she's not willingly to. But, again, be prepare that the next time she might make you suffer with her 'Mood' plan. Guys, don't be surprised if she will change her mind again in half an hour just because she wanna stay home instead of going out or just because she ...

"Anita" for Dummies #1

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"Anita" represents some population of female on the planet Venus. So you can read and learn what's going on in their sophisticated mind. #1. Red Light "Red Light", in every other planet, means stop. But on the planet Venus, it also means that "We're having a period and do not mess with us. Understand?". But Anita's poor honey had no clue at the beginning so there was a few time when Anita left him in a blue zone while she's in the Red zone wondering what he did wrong. Then she decided to warn him everytime before she enters the Red zone so that he can prepare not to piss her off!! Anita explained to him that when the time has came, she will be more emotional and so sensitive. Every little thing can possibly pull the trigger, every little thing that don't bother her at all when she's in the green zone can be extremely irritated when she crosses into the red zone. It is important for a couple to communicate. Men cannot read our mind...

"พ่อแม่รังแกฉัน"...."My parents spoiled me"

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พ่อแม่รังแกฉัน หลายต่อหลายครั้งเมื่อได้คุยกันถึงปัญหาเกี่ยวกับบุคลิคภาพและนิสัยใจคอ รวมไปถึงพฤติกรรมบางอย่างของเพื่อน ๆ บางคนจะกล่าวอ้างถึงการที่เติบโตมาโดยการเลี้ยงดูที่ถูกตามใจหรือไม่ก็เอาใจใส่มากเกินไปของพ่อและแม่ ในบางกรณีอาจจะตรงกันข้ามคือไม่ได้รับการดูแลเอาใจใส่เท่าที่ควร จึงเกิดพฤติกรรมของการชอบเรียกร้อง การกลัวที่จะไม่มีคนสนใจ การกลัวที่จะไม่ได้รับการยอมรับ รวมไปถึงพฤติกรรมอันชวนปวดหัวอื่น ๆ อีกมากมาย แต่ถูกต้องแล้วหรือที่เราควรจะโทษพ่อแม่เพียงฝ่ายเดียว การเลี้ยงดูที่แตกต่างกันในแต่ละครอบครัวอาจมีส่วนรับผิดชอบอยู่บ้าง แต่คนเราย่อมจะมีจิตสำนึกส่วนบุคคลด้วย ซึ่งก็หมายความว่าตัวเราเองก็มีส่วนสำคัญที่ทำให้เราเป็นเราอย่างเช่นทุกวันนี้ อีกปัจจัยที่มองข้ามไม่ได้เลยเช่นกันก็คือสภาวะแวดล้อม เพื่อนฝูง คนรอบข้าง ทุกสิ่งเกี่ยวข้องและมีผลกระทบกับการพัฒนาบุคลิคภาพของเราอย่างมาก บางคนอาจจะรู้อยู่แล้วว่าฉันเกิดมาเป็นลูกคนเดียว และการเป็นลูกคนเดียวย่อมตามมาด้วยคำว่า “ถูกตามใจจนเสียคน” พ่วงท้ายมาด้วยเสมอ พ่อกับแม่ฉันไม่เคยตามใจฉันเลยแม้แต่น้อย ถ้าผิดคือผิดและต้องถูกทำโทษเหมือนเด็กคนอื่นๆ ทั่วๆ ไ...